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How to sign up

Four steps, about five minutes.

Create an account, build your profile, get verified, then start anonymous chat. Photos and videos stay hidden for at least three days, until you both choose to reveal. Contact details can be exchanged after the fourteen-day continuation.

  1. 1

    Create your account

    Use email and password, Google or Apple. Sisters can nominate a wali at any point.

  2. 2

    Build your profile

    Nickname, age, location, marital status, occupation, intentions and your practising preferences.

  3. 3

    Get verified

    Verify your email and location to match. Add a selfie and ID for the optional verified badge — real humans review it, and verification media is never shown to matches.

  4. 4

    Chat anonymously

    Match, talk by text for three days, then request a mutual reveal. Voice notes unlock after both of you reveal.

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Vetting & extras

How do I get vetted?+

You can get vetted directly in the app or by visiting the Vetting tab and choosing one of our three Vet Packs. Brothers can purchase vetting tiers to earn a vetted badge on their profile, while sisters can purchase Vetted Potential Intro Packs. If a sister is chatting with an unvetted brother, she also has the option to pay to have him vetted.

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