Vetting

Know exactly who you're talking to.

Brothers get vetted so their character is verified, not just their photo. Sisters can then choose introductions only to brothers who passed. Three levels, one intention: marriages built on trust.

Vetting for brothers

Vetting is arranged by our team, so it's bought here on the website. The badge appears on your profile in the app as soon as you pass.

Vetting is for brothers only. Vetted brothers still appear in the main pool, but are shown less often - so a sister sees a vetted profile as the exception, not the norm.

Standard

AI and psychology screening

£19

  • AI-reviewed profile and psychology questionnaire
  • Checks intention, consistency and red flags
  • Verified vetting badge on your profile when you pass
  • Scored pass or fail - nothing is shown on your profile if you don't pass
Get Standard vetting

Premium

Live human judge panel

£99

  • A live panel of trained judges interviews you
  • Everything in Standard, reviewed by real people
  • Don't pass? Your £99 becomes credit toward Medal of Honour
  • Premium badge on your profile when you pass - no marker if you don't
Get Premium vetting

Medal of Honour

Full coaching programme

£999

  • 1:1 onboarding call and personal development plan
  • Weekly group calls, worksheets and accountability
  • No pass or fail - everyone who completes it earns the badge
  • The highest badge on the platform - the shortest route to a serious sister
Get Medal of Honour vetting

Introductions for sisters

Rather than search, you can pay for a set number of introductions to brothers who have already passed vetting at the level you choose. Each introduction is hand-checked by our team before it reaches your account.

Before you buy, you tell us your brief - age, height, ethnicity, location, occupation, practising level - and we send the closest matches to what you asked for. Your introductions arrive in their own area of the app, separate from ordinary matching.

IntroductionsPrice
1× Standard introduction£19Buy
3× Standard introductions£49Buy
1× Premium introduction£99Buy
3× Premium introductions£249Buy
1× Medal of Honour intro£999Buy
3× Medal of Honour intros£1999Buy

Not sure which level fits? See every vetting tier and what it includes in the store, or ask our team. 3 vetting levels are available today.

Already talking to someone? Vet him.

Once your three-day window is up, a sister can pay to have the brother she's speaking to vetted at any of the three levels above - the prices are exactly the same as when a brother buys it himself. Relationship coaching can be added afterwards if you'd like extra support before a decision.

Start your vetting enquiry

Answer a few questions and our vetting team will read them personally. You don't need an account yet - we'll reply by email with your next step.

Your answers go straight to our vetting team. We never share them with other members.