Vetting

Know exactly who you're talking to.

Brothers get vetted so their character is verified, not just their photo. Sisters can then choose introductions only to brothers who passed. Three levels, one intention: marriages built on trust.

Get Noticed. Get Vetted.

70% of women prefer vetted men — and 2 in 3 are more likely to make contact with a vetted profile. Show you're serious and get serious results.

Website prices are shown below. Where in-app checkout is available, you can stay in the app at the higher store price. Standard and Premium badges appear after passing; Medal of Honour recognises the coaching programme.

Standard

AI and psychology screening

£19

  • AI-reviewed profile and psychology questionnaire
  • Checks intention, consistency and red flags
  • Verified vetting badge on your profile when you pass
  • Scored pass or fail - nothing is shown on your profile if you don't pass
Get Standard vetting

Premium

Live human judge panel

£99

  • A live panel of trained judges interviews you
  • Everything in Standard, reviewed by real people
  • Don't pass? Your £99 becomes credit toward Medal of Honour
  • Premium badge on your profile when you pass - no marker if you don't
Get Premium vetting

Medal of Honour

6-week coaching programme

£999

  • 6 weeks, 6 sessions included
  • Solo onboarding call to start, then weekly group calls
  • Worksheets between sessions and extra recorded videos
  • No pass or fail - everyone who completes it earns the highest badge
Get Medal of Honour vetting

Introductions for sisters

Rather than search, you can pay for a set number of introductions to brothers who have already passed vetting at the level you choose. Each introduction is hand-checked by our team before it reaches your account.

Before payment you tell us your brief - age, height, ethnicity, location, occupation, practising level - and our team hand-picks the closest matches to what you asked for. Nothing is chosen automatically. Your introductions arrive in their own area of the app, separate from ordinary matching.

  • Standard3–5 working days
  • Premium3–5 working days
  • Medal of Honour3–5 working days
IntroductionsPrice
1× Standard introduction£19Buy
3× Standard introductions£49Buy
1× Premium introduction£99Buy
3× Premium introductions£249Buy
1× Medal of Honour intro£999Buy
3× Medal of Honour intros£1999Buy

Not sure which level fits? See every vetting tier and what it includes in the store, or ask our team. 3 vetting levels are available today.

Already talking to someone? Vet him.

Before or after your photos are revealed, a sister can pay to have the brother she's speaking to vetted at any of the three levels above - the prices are exactly the same as when a brother buys it himself. Vetting does not reveal photos or contact details early. Relationship coaching can be added afterwards if you'd like extra support before a decision.

The most common questions about vetting, what you pay for, and how the process works. Read the full Vetting FAQ for a complete walkthrough.

See all vetting questions

Start your vetting enquiry

Answer a few questions and our vetting team will read them personally. You don't need an account yet - we'll reply by email with your next step.

Your answers go straight to our vetting team. We never share them with other members.